Everyone talks about questions to ask yourself before saying yes to a guy. How about questions to ask yourself before breaking up with him? Breaking up is heavy. It sits in your chest for days, sometimes weeks, before you even say the words out loud. You keep going back and…
Sometimes it takes a while before the truth settles in. Love can make things look softer than they are. Feelings grow, memories build, and it becomes easy to explain away behaviour that hurts. There comes a quiet moment when something inside starts to question if this is how care is…
Burnout does not happen only with work or career. It can happen in love, too, especially when your heart has been carrying more weight than it should. Sometimes you just wake up and realize that the relationship that once felt light now feels heavy in your chest. Nothing dramatic has…
“…and you make my heart go tinga linga ling, and you remind me of a thing.” If you do not know what that “thing” is, go and listen to one of the greatest love songs ever made, African Queen by 2Face. That song alone explains half of what we are…
Imagine you are going about your day, trying to focus on work or enjoy a quiet evening, yet your mind keeps drifting back to that one person. You are not trying to think about them. You are not even sure why they have suddenly taken up so much space in…
When people hear “smart woman,” the first thing they think about is someone who never cries, never makes mistakes, never falls for the wrong guy and always has her life perfectly organized. But that is not what makes a woman smart in love. A smart woman is simply self-aware. She…
A toxic ex has a way of lingering in your life long after the relationship ends. They drain your energy. They pop up when you are finally moving on. They twist the story to make themselves look innocent, while you are left with emotional scraps. And the worst part is…
Some women think a good man walked away because he was weak or scared of commitment. Sometimes that is true. But many times, he left because the relationship became a place where he no longer felt wanted, respected or understood. Good men do not always announce their disappointment. They withdraw,…
It is confusing when a man likes you and still pulls back. One minute, he is present and attentive, vibrating with the potential of all the good things that could be right. Then suddenly he becomes slow, distant, or distracted. And you find yourself overthinking what you did wrong. But…
You cannot force a man to like you, but you can position yourself in a way that makes it almost impossible for a good man to overlook you. Attraction is not magic. It is not games or pretending to be someone you are not. Attraction is energy. It is presence.…
