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  • How to Have the What Are We Talk
    Dating Advice - Love and Relationships

    How to Have the “What Are We?” Talk Without Scaring Him Off

    - By YELE

    Girl, if you have gotten to the point where this question is living rent-free in your head, you already know it is time to have the conversation. The longer you wait for him to bring it up on his own, the longer you are going to be exactly where you…

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  • Situationships - Dating Advice

    9 Signs You’re In A Situationship

    - By YELE

    One thing that surprises me is how babes don’t even know they are in a situationship. It is really alarming because it is just like having body odor. Everybody around you knows it, even your partner probably does, but they have just grown used to it and moved with the…

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  • Love Messages That Will Make Him Text Back Immediately
    Love Messages

    50 Love Messages That Will Make Him Text Back Immediately

    - By YELE

    Some texts make him stop whatever he is doing, make him smile before he even finishes reading and want to respond before he puts the phone back in his pocket. The difference is not length but specificity and warmth. The feeling that this message was written for him and only him.…

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    Long Distance Love Messages That Bridge the Gap

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  • What to Do When You Catch Feelings in a Casual Thing
    Dating Advice

    What to Do When You Catch Feelings in a Casual Thing

    - By YELE

    There is something about getting caught in the middle of what you should not be doing. You tell yourself it is just vibes and something to pass the time without expectations. You knew what it was going in. But somewhere between the late-night conversations and the comfort of being seen,…

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  • How to Spot a Narcissist Before You Fall Too Deep In Love With Him
    Dating Advice

    How to Spot a Narcissist Before You Fall Too Deep In Love With Him

    - By YELE

    Narcissism is a word that gets thrown around so casually now that it has almost lost its weight and meaning. Every difficult ex is a narcissist. Every man who disappointed someone becomes one in the retelling. Which is a problem. Because when the word means everything, it starts to mean…

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  • 10 Marriage Mistakes Even Smart Women Make
    Love and Relationships - Marriage Advice

    10 Marriage Mistakes Even Smart Women Make

    - By YELE

    Intelligence does not protect you from marriage mistakes. Emotional intelligence does not either. The women who make these mistakes are not naive or uninformed or lacking in self-awareness. They are women who love their husbands, who are invested in their marriages, and who are making decisions that feel completely reasonable…

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    How to Keep Your Relationship Strong When Life Keeps Testing You

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    Why You Keep Dating Avoidant Men

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  • The One Thing That Saved My Marriage During Our Hardest Year
    Marriage Advice

    The One Thing That Saved My Marriage During Our Hardest Year

    - By YELE

    There is a version of a marriage that looks completely fine from the outside. Nobody on the outside would know anything was wrong. But inside the house, inside the specific rooms where it is just the two of you, something has gone cold. The specific coldness of two people who…

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  • What Happened When I Finally Walked Away From A Relationship That Didn't Serve Me
    Dating Advice - Dating Diary

    What Happened When I Finally Walked Away From A Relationship That Didn’t Serve Me

    - By YELE

    I had left that relationship a hundred times in my head before I actually left it. I had rehearsed the conversation, planned the timing, talked myself in and out of it so many times that the back and forth had become its own exhausting routine. And every time I did…

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  • How Being "Low Maintenance" is Ruining Your Dating Life
    Dating Advice

    How Being “Low Maintenance” is Ruining Your Dating Life

    - By YELE

    I used to be that babe who never really bothered about anything or even my man in a relationship. I believed it never made things complicated and even took pride in it being my most attractive quality. Before my husband and I became an item, he made me understand some…

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  • Turn-Offs for Men That Women Don't Even Realize
    Dating Advice

    10 Things That Should Be Non-Negotiable in Dating

    - By YELE

    Somewhere between being open-minded and being a pushover, the line gets blurry. And in dating, not everything is negotiable. Some things sit at the foundation of whether a relationship is safe, real, brings out the best of you, or slowly hollows you out. Those things are not preferences. They are…

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