Honest dating and relationship advice for women who are done settling. Real talk on love, red flags, heartbreak, and building the relationship you actually want.
A man will tell you he respects a woman long before his behavior backs it up. I have watched this happen in my own living room and across my desk at work. Men are generous with the word respect but are far more careful with the behavior that proves it.…
I have never been the type to believe you should shut someone out completely just because they went quiet for a while. Life happens, people get overwhelmed, and if you never hear anyone out, you’ll never actually know what happened on their end. But it’s a different story when someone…
Girl, I need you to sit down for this one because I just reorganized my entire bookshelf around heartbreak and it told on me. Situationship healing is not the same as breakup healing, and nobody warns you about that until you’re three months out, still confused about what exactly you’re…
The only real reason a situationship hurts so much is because you already think it is a real relationship, and it is not. That gap between what it actually is and what you believe it to be is where all the pain lives. And everything that hurts about it comes…
I am not against taking back a man you were once in love with. In fact, some of the most beautiful love stories I have heard are from people who got back together. But when he gets back with an explanation and an apology that makes you feel the way…
Every article on this topic is going to tell you to text less. Post more. Be mysterious. Act unbothered even when you are not. Create distance strategically so he feels the absence and comes running. That is not what this is. All of those are just mere performance… And performance…
Girl, nobody ends a situationship when they are completely over the person — if you were over him, it would not be this hard. The reason most women stay longer than they should is not that they do not know it is going nowhere. It is because they are trying…
Here is the thing nobody tells you about leaving a situationship you genuinely love — it is nothing like leaving one you have fallen out of feelings for. When you love him, everything feels like a reason to stay, and nothing feels like a good enough reason to go. But…
The human emotion is set in a way that we always want closure, finality, and an end to a particular phase. And that is why when something ends abruptly, we dwell on it so much without knowing when to stop or move on. That abruptness is what makes one hold…
Money is supposed to be one of the things you build together, but for a lot of women, the conversation around protecting yourself financially feels like it contradicts the whole idea of being in love. I want to clear that up right now. Protecting your money is not the opposite…
