Read this one with your whole chest, because some of us need it more than we want to admit. A relationship has a name, and a situationship has excuses. 8 Signs You’re In A Situationship And Calling It A Relationship 1. You Do Girlfriend Duties Without Girlfriend Clarity You cook for him when he’s tired, … Read more
If you’re only looking for the big romantic moments, you’ll miss most of the proof of true love. A man who loves you from the depths of his soul shows it most in the moments nobody is clapping for. These are the subtle signs a man loves you, the ones that are easy to miss … Read more
Let me be honest with you about something I’ve done before, because I know some of you are doing it right now. I spent three hours analyzing a text that only needed three words to understand: he wasn’t sure. If you’ve been googling the meaning of mixed signals at 1 am, this one is for … Read more
I need you to read this one slowly, especially if you just met someone and you can’t stop smiling at your phone. Love at first sight sometimes comes with very poor eyesight. Under that sight, there’s a lot of myopia, and it makes the early red flags in dating look like love in the first … Read more
Everybody online has a tip on how to make him obsessed, but what really makes men obsessed has very little to do with your looks. Looks will catch his eye, and I won’t pretend they don’t, but the feminine habits men love are the small things you do when you’re not trying to be noticed. … Read more
It’s funny how you think you’re being sweet and like a very good woman who is just being caring, while the man, on the other hand, thinks you’re being too much, that you have a crush on him, or that you’re just trying to win him over. At the end of the day, you’re both … Read more
A man will tell you he respects a woman long before his behavior backs it up. I have watched this happen in my own living room and across my desk at work. Men are generous with the word respect but are far more careful with the behavior that proves it. I got married almost a … Read more
I have never been the type to believe you should shut someone out completely just because they went quiet for a while. Life happens, people get overwhelmed, and if you never hear anyone out, you’ll never actually know what happened on their end. But it’s a different story when someone is notorious for it. This … Read more
Girl, I need you to sit down for this one because I just reorganized my entire bookshelf around heartbreak and it told on me. Situationship healing is not the same as breakup healing, and nobody warns you about that until you’re three months out, still confused about what exactly you’re grieving. These five books did … Read more
The only real reason a situationship hurts so much is because you already think it is a real relationship, and it is not. That gap between what it actually is and what you believe it to be is where all the pain lives. And everything that hurts about it comes from that one place. Why … Read more