For you to be reading this, it means you have already assessed the situation you are in. I want you to know that this took me quite a number of days to come up with, and for me to sit down and write through it, I am either confirming what…
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I want to start by saying something that might be uncomfortable. Most women who are looking for signs that a man will never commit to them have already seen the signs. What they are actually looking for is the courage to accept what they have already seen. So I am…
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Girl, if you have gotten to the point where this question is living rent-free in your head, you already know it is time to have the conversation. The longer you wait for him to bring it up on his own, the longer you are going to be exactly where you…
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One thing that surprises me is how babes don’t even know they are in a situationship. It is really alarming because it is just like having body odor. Everybody around you knows it, even your partner probably does, but they have just grown used to it and moved with the…
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Some texts make him stop whatever he is doing, make him smile before he even finishes reading and want to respond before he puts the phone back in his pocket. The difference is not length but specificity and warmth. The feeling that this message was written for him and only him.…
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There is something about getting caught in the middle of what you should not be doing. You tell yourself it is just vibes and something to pass the time without expectations. You knew what it was going in. But somewhere between the late-night conversations and the comfort of being seen,…
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Narcissism is a word that gets thrown around so casually now that it has almost lost its weight and meaning. Every difficult ex is a narcissist. Every man who disappointed someone becomes one in the retelling. Which is a problem. Because when the word means everything, it starts to mean…
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Intelligence does not protect you from marriage mistakes. Emotional intelligence does not either. The women who make these mistakes are not naive or uninformed or lacking in self-awareness. They are women who love their husbands, who are invested in their marriages, and who are making decisions that feel completely reasonable…
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There is a version of a marriage that looks completely fine from the outside. Nobody on the outside would know anything was wrong. But inside the house, inside the specific rooms where it is just the two of you, something has gone cold. The specific coldness of two people who…
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I had left that relationship a hundred times in my head before I actually left it. I had rehearsed the conversation, planned the timing, talked myself in and out of it so many times that the back and forth had become its own exhausting routine. And every time I did…
