Honest dating and relationship advice for women who are done settling. Real talk on love, red flags, heartbreak, and building the relationship you actually want.
Every article on this topic is going to tell you to text less. Post more. Be mysterious. Act unbothered even when you are not. Create distance strategically so he feels the absence and comes running. That is not what this is. All of those are just mere performance… And performance…
Girl, nobody ends a situationship when they are completely over the person — if you were over him, it would not be this hard. The reason most women stay longer than they should is not that they do not know it is going nowhere. It is because they are trying…
Here is the thing nobody tells you about leaving a situationship you genuinely love — it is nothing like leaving one you have fallen out of feelings for. When you love him, everything feels like a reason to stay, and nothing feels like a good enough reason to go. But…
The human emotion is set in a way that we always want closure, finality, and an end to a particular phase. And that is why when something ends abruptly, we dwell on it so much without knowing when to stop or move on. That abruptness is what makes one hold…
For you to be reading this, it means you have already assessed the situation you are in. I want you to know that this took me quite a number of days to come up with, and for me to sit down and write through it, I am either confirming what…
I want to start by saying something that might be uncomfortable. Most women who are looking for signs that a man will never commit to them have already seen the signs. What they are actually looking for is the courage to accept what they have already seen. So I am…
Girl, if you have gotten to the point where this question is living rent-free in your head, you already know it is time to have the conversation. The longer you wait for him to bring it up on his own, the longer you are going to be exactly where you…
One thing that surprises me is how babes don’t even know they are in a situationship. It is really alarming because it is just like having body odor. Everybody around you knows it, even your partner probably does, but they have just grown used to it and moved with the…
Some texts make him stop whatever he is doing, make him smile before he even finishes reading and want to respond before he puts the phone back in his pocket. The difference is not length but specificity and warmth. The feeling that this message was written for him and only him.…
There is something about getting caught in the middle of what you should not be doing. You tell yourself it is just vibes and something to pass the time without expectations. You knew what it was going in. But somewhere between the late-night conversations and the comfort of being seen,…
