Have you recently been told by a guy “let’s see how it goes”? Congratulations, you may just be the latest maze runner in town. Because those words can be frustratingly vague, leaving you to wonder what he’s really thinking and where you stand in the relationship. Is he genuinely unsure,…
Hi Siri! Play me someone like you by Adele or Las Las by Burnaboy ‘cause it’s time to say goodbye! Let’s talk about breakups. You know, those gut-wrenching, soul-crushing moments when you feel like a character in a sad indie movie, wandering through life in emotional turmoil. Hi there! I’m…
The first month of dating represents a critical window where we establish the foundation for what could become a transformative, long-term connection. During this initial period, we often allow our emotions and expectations to run completely unchecked without recognizing how our behaviors might be actively pushing away someone who could…
Because When You’re Ready to Build, Not Just Date, You Stop Entertaining Chaos We live in a world where most people settle for crumbs when they could be feasting at the table of extraordinary love. This culture has become obsessed with situationships, endless swiping, and connections so shallow you couldn’t…
Because Love Shouldn’t Feel Like a Riddle You Can’t Solve Let me start with something I know to be absolutely true after years of watching good people struggle in relationships. If you need a translator to understand someone’s feelings for you, that is not love. That is a foreign language…
Because This One Thing Determines Everything That Follows “Partial love is like partial payment on a house. You can’t move in, you can’t really call it yours, but they expect you to keep making payments forever.” Dating advice is absolutely everywhere these days. You got your lists of red flags…
Because Sometimes the Problem Isn’t the Partner, It’s the Unhealed Parts of You “Your heart is like a house that got broken into. Even after you change the locks and get a security system, you still check the windows three times before bed. That ain’t crazy, that’s just trauma.” Let…
Because Not Every Intense Feeling is Healthy, and Not Every Connection is Meant to Last Love is like cooking. Just because something is hot doesn’t mean it’s done. And just because something tastes sweet doesn’t mean it’s good for you. Not everything that feels like love is actually love. I…
Because Some Issues Aren’t Meant to Be Solved, They’re Meant to Be Walked Away From Let me tell you something right now that might save you years of heartache. Therapy is a powerful tool for relationships. It saves marriages, mends broken communication, and teaches couples how to listen, love, and…
Because Not All Advice is Good Advice, Especially When It’s Based on Fear, Ego, or TikTok In this age of Instagram therapists, viral relationship gurus, and everybody in your group chat thinking they are Dr. Phil, it is incredibly easy to get swept up in advice that sounds empowering on…
